The Tough Love Society Membership

Break through the BS holding you back alongside other badass women in our group coaching community.

Life is better together.

The Tough Love Society is for the ambitious, and likely busy AF woman, who wants to finally break through their bullshit of burn out, self-doubt, overwhelm and feeling alone pursuing their dreams. Inside this membership, you’ll collaborate with other driven women who are also recovering from hustle culture and wholeheartedly pursuing a more balanced life so you can feel confident, connected and create a simple, sustainable life you freaking love.

No more saying “one day” you’ll get your shit together. No more saying adulting is lonely (which IT IS) and then doing nothing about it. There’s power in community, girl friend, and I promise you’ll love doing life with us.

We know adulting can feel hard and inevitably lonely but we’re tackling that head on and believe that virtual community shouldn’t be underestimated. Come find your people inside the Tough Love Society and lean into friendships that fuel your soul.

The Tough Love Society is a mindset-first group coaching community. Think personalized life coaching but with other women to lock arms with along the way. Here, you'll get practical, tough love advice and an encouraging sounding board as you grow in confidence, consistency and self-love. We help you get clarity on what you want out of life so you can create sustainable habits and rhythms to achieve your goals without the all-or-nothing burnout. Our group coaching community values vulnerability and genuine conversations, where our members always feel seen, valued and heard as their truest selves.

It’s a space to simply be.

What is the Tough Love Society?

The Tough Love Society was designed for women who crave intentional relationships, sustainable habits and mindset growth and most definitely don’t want to do that freaking alone. We welcome women of all walks because we value every single fresh perspective our members bring. Whether you’re a fresh college grad, business woman, new mama, entrepreneur, newlywed, seasoned mother of multiple kiddos, single, married - literally any and all seasons! - you are welcomed and wanted here.

Every woman deserves authentic friendships and unwavering support. In the Tough Love Society, our group coaching community allows you to connect with and learn from women of all walks. We truly believe iron sharpens iron.

Who is Tough Love Society for?

What’s included:

  • Get access to a life coach and instant accountability from other members who have your back. The Tough Love Society founder and coach Haley Gradert creates topics and lessons each month to help you cut through the BS and create a life you love. Say goodbye to overwhelm!

  • Join a live 60-90 minute interactive group coaching call each week and leave with actionable steps to cultivate more consistency and joy in your life. The group calls consist of a variety of life and mindset topics to help you progress personally and professionally. The live format allows members the opportunity to ask questions, get real-time feedback and deepen friendships with other members. All calls are recorded and available to members for playback.

  • Receive personal development book, podcast and article recommendations to support your growth.

  • Once a month, the Tough Love Society invites a guest speaker to join us for an interactive 60-90 minute call. We host a variety of guest speakers from working moms to entrepreneurs to motivational speakers to join us and offer wisdom, insight and answer questions. All guest speaker calls are recorded and available to members for playback.

  • The Tough Love Society membership included access to a private group thread for members to truly have that tight-knit community feel. Our private page allows members to know each other better and make authentic connections.

  • All calls and monthly speakers are recorded and stored so members have 24/7 access. Can’t hop on live? No worries. Our resources are housed for members. As new courses, workshops and self-paced curriculum are released, Tough Love Society members will have lifetime access.

Jacee, past Tough Love Society member

“The Tough Love Society has been the group I’ve been needing but didn’t know where to find something like this. Haley has put together a concise and thought out plan to help you on your personal and professional growth journey. I enjoy having tangible goals to work on and Haley provides that with a personal approach. I also enjoy our weekly chats—her expertise and guidance bring so much to our calls. I’ve also gained a friend in Haley and confidant through life who supports me! From the PD books we read, her personal connection and the multiple speakers I am learning invaluable ways to grow!”

Allison, past Tough Love Society member

“I cannot recommend the Tough Love Society enough! If you seek an authentic, supportive community that cheers you on during life's ups and downs, theTough Love Society is definitely a place you will get all of the above and more. Within this group, I've cultivated valuable friendships and experienced Haley's extraordinary dedication in infusing passion, love, positivity, and support. It's been a transformative journey, pushing me to become my best self, while also honing my strengths and addressing areas where I need improvement.”

Shelby, Tough Love Society member

“This community has truly been the confidence and support I needed through difficulties with work and life! Having this group of ladies that are there for you every step of the way, cheering you on and pushing you to be the best you can be is truly amazing! I’m so grateful Haley asked me to join as I definitely would not be as confident as I am today in fulfilling the challenges that happen on a day to day!.”

The nitty gritty details and FAQs

    • Our “tough love” approach to encouragement and accountability where we always have your best interests at heart and aren’t afraid to give you the advice you may really need

    • An interactive environment where everyone’s voice is heard and valued

    • The permission to dream bigger and show up authentically

    • Other driven women to push you and cheer you on

    • Personalized content geared especially for you, made for exactly where you are in life right now

    • Practical advice, tactics, habits and routines to help you grow

    • A mindset-first approach to your health and happiness

    • Advice and real life perspectives from industry leading, inspiring women

    • A coach who believes in you, encourages you, and calls you out on your crap when you need it

  • Relationships take time. We encourage all members to join our community for at least three months to truly get comfortable, meet other members and start to define and track what “results” you want to achieve.

    Results in the Tough Love Society depend on each member’s goals, priorities and timelines. Results could look like, but aren’t limited to:

    • Creating momentum and consistency around habits for health, happiness, finances, etc.

    • More discipline in the areas you want to grow personally and/or professionally

    • More self love and grace for the woman you see in the mirror

    • Clearer and more defined goals

    • A game plan for your monthly, quarterly and/or yearly goals

    • Finding a deeper emotional connection to your dreams and goals

    • Personalized systems and more self-awareness to prevent burnout, self sabotage and limiting beliefs

    • Finding a support system that will always have your back and serve as a sounding board for your ideas

    • A larger network for professional opportunities

    • Feeling more prepared for professional endeavors like job hunting, resume creation & editing, and job interviews

    In the Tough Love Society, we work with members to help them get clarity around what they want to see improve during their membership. Goals change as seasons change and we get that!

  • When you have skin in the game, you show up more intentionally and apply more effort. The Tough Love Society is a paid membership so members get the best of both worlds - personalized life coaching and group accountability.

    One-on-one life coaching costs anywhere from hundreds to thousands of dollars a month. After investing in her own 1:1 life coaching for six months, the Tough Love Society founder Haley Gradert wanted to give other women the opportunity to experience the growth and momentum from working with a life coach within a more affordable price range.

    The Tough Love Society membership is truly a hands-on, interactive membership. Our membership fees allow us to continue to add to our resources and provide our members with top-notch content and platforms that make membership experiences second-to-none.

    The Tough Love Society won’t be for everyone and that’s okay. If the price point is your biggest obstacle, please feel free to book a free 15-minute discovery call below. We would love to help you strategize ways to reallocate your finances and fit the Tough Love Society into your budget.

    All membership subscriptions are run through Stripe.

Membership Options

New members receive a free month discounted on their first membership subscription. Longer membership commitments receive lower membership costs on a per month basis. Memberships can be changed or canceled or at any time.

$237

Every 3 Months ($79/Month)

$437

Every 6 Months (Less than $73/Month)

$837

Annually (Less than $70/Month) Most savings

Ready to join us, girl friend?

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Select your subscription below to enroll in the Tough Love Society. Once you complete your subscription, you’ll receive a welcome email with all the getting started details to join our private membership platform and be a part of our kickass community. We’re so damn excited to do life with you. After you select your subscription and hit ‘Subscribe’ enter the promotion code FREEMONTH for a one-time free month discount on your new membership.

There’s power in community.

And we’d love to have you here. Come as you are, girl friend.

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